You think you’re finally over your ex. Until, out of nowhere, they slide into your DMs or send an unexpected text, suddenly wondering how you’ve been – only to disappear again.
It’s not uncommon for a former partner to genuinely be interested in catching up with you. They may be curious about your post-breakup life or even attempt to rekindle the connection. But not every out-of-the-blue message is well-intentioned: Sometimes, toxic exes want to keep you on edge.